It took me almost two years to get up the courage to do this:
Transform my “style”. Git me one of them thar Fashion Makeovers…
Not that I had much style to start with. I would never have said I knew ANYTHING about style or fashion.
I still don’t.
But I don’t have to be an expert in this area because I have Kimberly Seltzer.
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Kimberly Seltzer America’s #1 Dating Makeover and Confidence Expert
EliteImageMakeOvers.com
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I met Kim at an Adam Gilad relationship workshop I attended almost 2 years ago. She was one of the coaches who Adam brought in to work with a group of 40 men and women. I had received some coaching from her previously on a group call that was really helpful.
So not only was I impressed with her coaching style, I was blown away by her demonstration of transformation in action. I saw her take an awkward, geeky guy and right in front of EVERYONE, putting different clothes on him that instantly turned him into something else… SOMEONE else, the kind of man women notice, and men listen to and follow.
It was stunning to see how fast someone could change. I wanted that for myself.
Back then, I managed to scrape together enough dough for a one hour skype session with her and it HELPED a lot.
Kim prevailed upon me to change my glasses. To choose frames that had an artistic, creative edge to them.
She also convinced me that the baggy t-shirt and baggy pants “look” was actually hiding my manly “hunk” of a body. So I started wearing slim fit v-neck t shirts. A huge improvement. And still just scratching the surface…
My confidence rose…. (even though I would have said I was pretty damn confident to start with).
It also helped me realize that I needed and wanted MORE. Sometimes it’s helpful to understand how much you don’t know about a given field. I am more and more convinced that coaching is crucial in certain key areas. And this is one of them.
This summer our paths crossed again at a The Elite Man conference in Plymouth Massachusetts back in July and I just so happened to be headed for a conference in Orange County California this week, just a hop, skip and a jump away from Kim’s Favorite Bloomingdales in Santa Monica.
So I committed to going for it. I knew I needed help. I knew Kim was the one to help me. I knew it would require a significant investment. I was actually a little scared. But I did it anyway.
The following videos document my own transformational journey. If you’re short on time, please watch the first one and the last one in full. The others basically are me trying on for the camera the beginnings of my professional wardrobe.
Enjoy!
I strongly urge you to reach out to Kim. Get on her email list. Check out her podcasts and live events.
She will be holding an awesome event the 2nd weekend in November:
Kimberly Seltzer’s MakeOver Blueprint
Her regular website is awesome too:
Kimberly Seltzer America’s #1 Dating Makeover and Confidence Expert
Here are my videos:
- My IMMEDIATE reaction after spending about 4 hours in Bloomingdales with Kim
- Me modeling some of my new outfits
- Conclusions and reflections on the process of Transformation
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